On this episode of the School of Greatness, I sit down with the incredible Mel Robbins to discuss her groundbreaking new book, "The Let Them Theory." Mel reveals how she discovered this life-changing concept through a simple moment at her son's prom, and how it has transformed not only her relationships but her entire approach to life. She shares deep insights about the four key ways we unknowingly give our power to others and explains how two simple words - "let them" - can help us reclaim our time, energy, and happiness. Through personal stories and practical examples, Mel illuminates why trying to control others creates resistance and how we can influence positive change by modeling behavior instead of forcing it.Mel’s new book The Let Them TheoryIn this episode you will learn:Why the biggest obstacle in everyone's life is the power we unknowingly give to other peopleThe four main ways we turn other people into problems and how to stop doing itHow to use the "Let Them Theory" to create healthier boundaries and relationshipsWhy trying to control or change others creates resistance and what to do insteadThe ABC method for influencing positive change in others without pressureHow to balance letting people be themselves while maintaining healthy boundariesWhy being present and modeling behavior is more powerful than trying to fix othersFor more information go to https://www.lewishowes.com/1710For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes we think you’ll love:Andrew Huberman – greatness.lnk.to/1455SCPeter Diamandis – greatness.lnk.to/1704SCMark Manson – greatness.lnk.to/1485SC Get more from Lewis! Pre-order my new book Make Money EasyGet The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX