What if your greatest fears could lead you to your most authentic life?In this expansive Process episode, Jessica welcomes writer and TBM member, Ziza, as she shares her profound journey from self-doubt and people-pleasing to manifesting her dream life in Italy. Ziza shares openly about growing up with untethered parents, adopting patterns of parentification, shape-shifting, and relying on external validation due to deep-rooted fears of abandonment. Discover how she navigated a four-year rut in career before landing her dream job—by reconnecting with her inherent worthiness and listening to her intuitive pings. Jessica and Ziza explore how embracing life's worst moments can revive and reshape your character, and why true expansion often requires releasing control to trust life's mystical surprises. Learn how subconscious reprogramming through TBM practices helped Ziza exchange "good" for "great," prioritize her inner voice, and ultimately manifest a profound, authentic life. This episode powerfully reminds us that what's meant for you will never miss you, and it's never too late to courageously pursue your dreams.Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast Resources: Join the Pathway MembershipReprogram your limiting beliefs and step into your most magnetic self! The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential.JOIN HEREUse code EXPANDED for 20% first month Get the latest from TBMLacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join HereThe Authenticity Challenge Manifest the life you *actually* want. JOIN NOWBrand New Video Series! Channeling with Lacy: Your Energetic Update for Manifesting + All New STRIPPED DI & EMBODIED DIFree live call on How to Stay Magnetic in 2025? Drop your email here and get the replay!Access FREE Safe DI bundle hereAccess brand new Magic Dark Playlist inside the TBM App – Join the Pathway (use code EXPANDED for 20% first month) New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You StartedLearn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial LibraryReady to find out what’s holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation StorySubmit to Be a Process GuestShare a voice note of your manifestation story to be featured in an episode! This Episode is brought to you by: Kajabi Try Kajabi all-in-one business platform free for 30 days with TBM link! Sunday for Dogs - 40% off with code TBM. Get 40% off a two week trial of Sundays. Go to sundaysfordogs.com/TBM or use code TBM at checkout. In This Episode We Talk About:The impact of childhood experiences on self-worth and manifestationHow immigrant roots shaped Ziza’s identity and internalized beliefsParentification, hyper-independence, and learning to trust supportThe bridge job as a stepping stone to deeper alignmentWhy the “money” block is never just about moneyThe power of subconscious reprogramming in shifting scarcity mindsetsThe importance of sitting with fears and dissolving their chargeHow stillness and presence enhance manifestationThe role of energetics in receiving unexpected opportunitiesManifesting a dream move to Italy through self-trust and surrenderParenting with awareness—breaking cycles while maintaining balanceSetting boundaries with the inner critic to avoid fear-based decision makingWhy expansion requires discomfort, trust, and deep inner listeningHonoring where you are now instead of chasing the next goal Mentioned In the Episode: Dark Side of the Light Chasers by ?Debbie FordListen to Lacy on the goop podcast Manifesting the Life you WantCheck out the Free Clarity Exercise mentioned in this epFind our authenticity challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Embodied DI, Feel Your Feelings DI, and the Clear Your Aura DI) Connect with Ziza!@zizavita on IG Where To Find Us!@tobemagnetic (IG)@Lacyannephillips@Jessicaashleygill@tobemagnetic (youtube)@expandedpodcast